By Sandra Ontiveros DVM | Buda Veterinary Care

One of the most common things I hear from cat owners is, “My cat hates going to the vet.”

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Veterinary visits can feel overwhelming for many cats—and for their owners. The good news is that with thoughtful preparation and a few practical strategies, visits can become significantly less stressful for everyone involved.

Reducing fear starts at home, well before appointment day.

Understanding What Stresses Cats

For most cats, anxiety centers around three key moments:

  • Entering the carrier
  • Riding in the car
  • Arriving at the veterinary clinic

By addressing each step individually, we can dramatically improve your cat’s overall experience. Let’s break it down…

An orange tabby cat cautiously approaches an open blue and white pet carrier placed on a wooden floor in a bright, cozy living room.

1. Make the Carrier a Safe, Familiar Space

For many cats, the most stressful part of the visit is simply being placed into the carrier. If the carrier only appears when something unpleasant is about to happen, your cat quickly learns to avoid it.

Leave the Carrier Out Year-Round

Keep the carrier in a common area of your home with the door open. Ideally, it should always be accessible—not stored in a closet and brought out only on appointment day. If that’s not possible, bring it out at least 2–4 weeks in advance.

Place soft bedding, a familiar blanket, treats, or favorite toys inside. Some cats even enjoy napping in their carriers when it becomes part of their normal environment.

In fact, our own part-time clinic cat travels several times a week in her carrier. Because it is a routine and familiar space, she is so comfortable that she often falls asleep during the car ride. Her carrier is simply part of her normal life—not a signal that something scary is about to happen. That level of comfort is absolutely achievable for many cats with gradual, consistent exposure.

Use Calming Pheromones

Spraying the carrier with a feline pheromone product such as Feliway about 15–30 minutes before use can help create a sense of security. There are also pheromone diffusers and collars that may support relaxation.

Choose the Right Carrier

A sturdy carrier with both front and top openings—or one with a removable top—makes a significant difference. These designs allow us to gently examine your cat without forcing them out, which reduces fear and defensive behavior.

Cover the Carrier During Travel

Draping a familiar blanket over the carrier can reduce visual stimulation and help your cat feel protected during transport.

2. Reduce Car Ride Anxiety

Even cats who tolerate the carrier may become distressed in the car.

  • Secure the carrier with a seatbelt to prevent sliding.
  • Keep the environment quiet—avoid loud music.
  • Speak softly and calmly.

You can also schedule “happy visits” or short practice drives that end back at home with a reward. When every car ride does not lead to the veterinary clinic, anxiety often decreases over time.

3. Consider Calming Medication, When Appropriate

For cats with significant anxiety, medication can be transformative. Gabapentin is a safe, commonly prescribed medication that provides mild anti-anxiety and calming effects. It is typically given:

  • The night before the appointment
  • Again 1–2 hours prior to travel
Gabapentin can significantly reduce stress related to entering the carrier, riding in the car, and undergoing the exam itself. Many owners report less vocalization and an overall calmer experience. If you think your cat may benefit, please speak with us in advance so we can determine the appropriate plan.

A tabby cat wrapped in a purple towel sits on an exam table while two people examine it at a veterinary clinic. A person holds the cat steady, and a medical device is on the table.

4. Minimize Stress at the Clinic

Once you arrive, small adjustments can make a big difference. Whenever possible, we aim to:

  • Bring feline patients directly into an exam room
  • Minimize exposure to barking dogs or other stressors (If you’re coming to Buda Vet Care, enter through our dedicated Cat Entrance!)
  • Provide quiet handling and gentle restraint

If your cat appears fearful, we may use towel wrapping (“kitty burrito”) to provide a sense of security during examination. Many cats relax when they feel gently contained.

Bringing high-value treats such as tuna, wet food, or squeeze treats can also help create positive associations.

Most importantly, try to remain calm yourself. Cats are very sensitive to human emotions. A soft voice and steady demeanor can help reassure them.

Don’t Let Stress Delay Care

I understand how difficult it can feel to bring in a cat who becomes anxious. However, postponing visits can allow health problems to progress silently. Cats are masters at hiding illness, and regular examinations are essential to maintaining their comfort and longevity.

Your veterinarian’s goal is not just to treat illness, but to make veterinary care a manageable and positive experience for both you and your cat.

With preparation, patience, and sometimes medical support, veterinary visits can become far less stressful than you might expect.

If you have concerns about your cat’s anxiety, please reach out to your vet. The right veterinary partner can develop a plan that makes cat visits as smooth and stress-free as possible—for everyone involved.

Dr. Sandra Ontiveros is the medical director of Buda Veterinary Care in Buda, TX.
Should you have questions for our staff, please reach out to us at 737-283-2838 or hello@budavetcare.com